I believe that you have it in you to build, grow, and nurture beautiful, conscious relationships-- and you only need to have faith in yourself that such is possible for you.
Because of the beliefs we formed when we were younger and we continued to generate evidence from, we settle for less than what we deserve and lose ourselves in the process.
The good news is, it doesn’t always have to be that way.
Hi, I’m Frances! I’m a transformational and relationship coach. I help high-performing, single women remove their inner barriers to love and help them find a deep, soulful, and loving connection with themselves and others.
I know how much of a struggle it is to be with people who don’t seem to get you. At times, you may even feel disconnected from yourself and others.
You feel different from everyone else and you don’t feel appreciated even with all your skills and talents.
You are driven and unstoppable in other areas of your life, you chase after your dreams and you usually get what you want.
You work hard, you’re smart, you’re brilliant! Yet, no matter what you do, you can’t seem to attract the right person for you.
You find yourself mostly alone and have no one to share your excitement and your dreams with.
You wonder if something’s wrong with you.
You’ve had a string of relationships, but they’re mostly with emotionally unavailable, love-avoidant men. What is it about you that repels the good, honest, and loving men to choose you?
Or you’re single all your life and you’re slowly losing hope in finding “the one”. There were men who liked you, but there were always something wrong with them.
He’s too tall, he’s too short, he talks funny, he’s not handsome. You seem to have a ready excuse why he’s not right for you.
Yet, you run after men who only sees you when it’s convenient for them. He calls or messages you back after a week, you see him only once a month and you find ways to justify his actions. You don’t want to admit that you’re afraid— if you ask too much, you will lose him.
You know deep down you deserve a loving and thriving relationship with someone who loves and respects you. You know he exists, even if most of the time, you doubt it. With everything you have been through, it’s easy to give up finding that person you’ll love and who will love you back.
If the story sounds familiar, I want you to know you’re not alone in this journey.
For a time, that was my story too.
I always felt like I was different even as a child. I was always known as “the quiet one”. I kept mostly to myself and had my own little world.
I had that yearning of wanting to belong and being part of something and this longing showed up in all my relationships. I was easily relatable and I found myself drawn to what my partners liked.
I developed this chameleon-like quality and blended in with them, sacrificing my own authenticity in the process.
I wanted to please them for fear they will leave me, so I trained myself not to articulate my feelings and needs. I didn’t set boundaries when I should.
When the relationships didn’t work out, I felt like I betrayed myself for not speaking my truth and for not showing them who I really am.
Yet, in spite of that, I never gave up on love.
I continued to do the inner work and in the process, discovered how to use my wounding as a superpower.
I stopped pretending to be someone I’m not and began to love and accept myself.
I honed my intuition skills and believed in my own capacity to love and be loved.
My passion to help women like you is what keeps me going.
I know how challenging it is to find a partner who loves and accepts you for who you are. This is why I make it my mission to help you break free from your disempowering old stories and help you become unstoppable in love and in life through my courses, workshops, and 1:1 coaching programs.
I hope that through the tools I’ll share with you, you will learn to love yourself more, develop more compassion for yourself and others, and thrive in secure and stable relationships.
Love, after all, begins within.
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WHY WORK WITH ME?
I’m a certified Calling in “The One” coach, trained and mentored by Katherine Woodward Thomas, NY Times bestselling author of Calling in “The One” and Conscious Uncoupling.
I’m also an MBSR (Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction) teacher-in-training, an Iyengar yoga practitioner, and a meditator.
I have over 10 years of experience in personal development work, leading and facilitating leadership and entrepreneurship seminars.
I’m a life-long learner and I constantly invest in myself through courses, trainings, and books to deepen my knowledge and understanding on how to become a better human being.
My own experience in going through the Calling in “The One” process inspired me to follow my inner guidance and pursue a path in coaching. I’m passionate about helping my clients rewrite their old stories into empowering ones and lead them to create deep and lasting happiness in love and in life.
While I serve women in different ages and profession, I find my most powerful work are with high-performing, single women in their mid-20s to early 40s who don’t feel deeply connected with themselves and others, don’t feel like they belong, and don’t trust themselves to create deep and loving relationships.
I offer 1:1 coaching to women in the US and internationally through phone or Skype audio. I also lead live Calling in “The One” classes and workshops in Miami.
When you work with me, I’ll stand and hold the high watch with you on the future you’re intending to create. I’ll be your biggest cheerleader as you take on new skills and capacities that will lead you into a most fulfilling, happy, healthy life.
ready to take a stand for happy, healthy love?
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A FEW MORE THINGS ABOUT ME
I was born and raised in the Philippines and I moved to the United States in 2015. In college, I majored in Film and Communications, which explains my undying love for the cinema. I wrote for Radio, TV, Film, and Print at some point in my life. I owned and managed a franchise of a social enterprise in the Philippines, while also teaching full-time in a university.
Aside from being an entrepreneur and a teacher, I was also a community volunteer in my country. The experience helped unlock a passion for helping others and making a difference in the world.
I believe in living simply to make room for what matters most— love, inner peace and happiness.
I’m currently based in Miami, living close to the beach. I love non-alcoholic pina coladas, long walks on the beach, and arthouse cinemas.
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