“All the good ones are taken.”
“I must be too old, too fat, or too skinny.”
“I’m a loner, no one will like my company.”
“There are no good men out there.”
Do any of these SounD familiar?
What if you could liberate yourself from your old story and remove the inner blocks that are hindering you from getting the love you deserve?
What if you could create health and happiness in love now even if you haven’t met the right person yet?
What if you could step out of your comfort zone and start showing up in ways that are consistent to the future you wish to create?
Hi, I’m Frances Lacuesta, certified Calling in “The One” coach, trained and mentored by Katherine Woodward Thomas, NY Times bestselling author of Calling in “The One” and Conscious Uncoupling. I help high-performing, single women like you radically transform their love lives, deepen their self-love, and thrive in beautiful, conscious relationships.
Before I pursued the path of coaching, I was in a string of relationships that never seem to work out. Most of the men I was with were either emotionally unavailable or had narcissistic tendencies. I was a magnet for men with anger issues, superiority complex and commitment phobia.
As an introvert, I didn’t know how to communicate effectively with my partners. I would rather keep things to myself than break the peace.
My internal dialogue were “Men don’t choose me” and “Men will leave me anyway”. I was generating evidence after evidence that these were true.
The men I was with told me I was smart and amazing, but how come they chose someone else?
What was wrong with me?
I was confused and frustrated and I racked my brains trying to figure it out.
Was I too intimidating? Was I desperate? Am I not pretty enough or smart enough for them?
I was in my late 30s and I was ready to resign to my fate of being single.
So, when someone came along and wanted to marry me four months in the relationship, I said yes!
I was happy, finally someone was choosing me!
… or so I thought.
I was divorced a year later, depressed and ready to give up on finding the right person.
After several therapy sessions trying to heal from a painful and traumatic relationship, I was ready to get to the bottom of my relationship woes.
I was determined to understand myself in the hopes of turning my life around. I thought this time it was going to be easy.
After all, I was doing a lot of personal development work. I spent huge amounts of time reading self-help books and even attended seminars on ways to improve relationships.
Yet, I still attract the same kind of men.
Bruised and battered on the inside, I was thinking…
“Maybe I was missing something.”
I became more determined than ever to learn more about the inner workings of a relationship.
What was the difference between me and other women I know who were happy and fulfilled in their relationships?
Yet even in those lonely Friday nights, when everyone else I knew were out having fun or going out on dates, I remained positive. I continued to educate myself on the subject of relationships, I would journal at night and looked back on the patterns of my past relationships.
One night, while I was journaling, I had an epiphany.
The hard, bitter truth hit me— I was continuously abandoning myself in the hopes of finding love and acceptance from these men.
I wanted to have a relationship I can call my own, so I was willing to do anything, and put up with anything in order to please them.
I was no longer going to allow it.
I made a commitment to take a stand for myself; to love and choose myself even if men won’t.
Little did I know that I was already setting an intention to a future I never thought possible.
Doors started opening for me that were never there before.
I was introduced to Katherine Woodward Thomas’ work and went through the 7-Step Calling in “The One” process.
It jolted me and woke me up to the reality of how I was the source of the disappointing patterns of my past relationships.
I began to uncover the inner blocks that are hindering me from having a thriving and stable relationship.
I felt empowered and became confident not only in the area of love, but in other areas as well.
I started showing up in radical new ways and became happier and more at ease.
Around that time, I also met a kind, funny and smart man who consistently showed up for me and treated me with the love and respect that I always wanted.
All of these were possible because I never gave up on the possibility of happy, healthy love in my life.
Now, this possibility is opening up for you.
Calling in “The One”
Experiencing how much the program helped me with my own transformation, I made a conscious choice to train as a coach under Katherine Woodward Thomas. She created the powerful 7-Step Calling in “The One” process to identify and release your inner barriers to love and become magnetic to love.
If the CITO process worked for me, it can work for women like you who have been struggling in having a loving and committed relationship for a long time and even believe to be the least likely to find love.
Calling in “The One” helps you to create an unprecedented experience of deep happiness and wellbeing in love, no matter how disappointing your past experiences have been.
When you choose to work with me. I’ll meet you where you are now and bring you to where you want to be.
Here’s How It Works…
Get a copy of the book, Calling in “The One” by Katherine Woodward Thomas here.
We begin with a 90-minute Introductory session to see how well we can work together.
We will meet for your 60-minute one-on-one coaching session every week for the next 7 weeks through phone or Skype audio. Each session will cover one of the seven lessons in the book.
After we complete the 7 weeks together, you can choose to use the complimentary booster session to integrate what you learned in the program.
For FAQs, please click here.
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What my clients say…
A brilliant course with the most amazing coach. I am honoured to have worked with Frances, her kindness, patience and guidance have been indispensable over the 8 weeks. She is an amazing listener and I felt 100% secure to share anything with her, and by allowing myself to voice my fear and worries, together we were able to transform them into powerful intentions. This allowed me to shift my focus and actively create happiness in my life. Thank you for helping me transform my habits and manifest love into my life.
Once again, thank you so much for working with me. I have continued to work on my intentions, and the change I am seeing in my relationships and my everyday life, mood and priorities are phenomenal.”
- Anne, United Kingdom
I very much enjoyed my weekly calls with Frances. Through our sessions, I learned about myself and my feelings in a way that I did not when doing the Calling in “The One” course on my own. She is encouraging and helps you to dig deeper without being pushy. Sharing with her is always a safe space, which is important to me. Frances has a calm about her that is very approachable.
~Megan Brindley, NJ, USA
Here’s What We’ll Cover
Week 1: Opening to Love
Break through any resignation you may have and become grounded in the possibilities you hold for happy, healthy and fulfilling love.
Identify how your disappointing patterns in love have been happening through you and not just to you, and awaken your power to evolve beyond them.
Learn the biggest mistake you may be making in your quest for love and discover the single most important thing you can do to create the miracle of love in your life.
Set a bold intention for love to unleash a slew of synchronicity and magic that will ensure your vision for love becomes your new reality.
Week 2: clearing your hidden blocks and barriers to love
See the specific ways that you’ve been the source of your past disappointing experiences in love – and be liberated to create a new, more fulfilling experience moving forward.
Discover the secret to freeing yourself from old festering hurts – so you can love someone new with an open and unfettered heart.
Learn the keys to transforming toxic relationship dynamics – and generate greater levels of health and wellbeing in all your connections.
Become aware of the old agreements that have been binding you to your past – and make new ones that free you to welcome an exquisite love into your life.
Week 3: Claiming Your True “Love Identity” to Create the Relationship You Want
Identify the specific false beliefs that have been sabotaging your ability to create happy, healthy love – and learn the step-by-step pathway to evolving beyond them.
See clearly the subtle and covert ways of relating that have unconsciously been causing you to duplicate old painful patterns in love – and graduate from them forever.
Awaken to your worthiness to love and be loved – and unleash your power to create a relationship that lights you up, inspires you and brings out the best of who you are.
Ground your awakening by taking bold actions and engaging your growth – to make living from your true “love identity” your new normal.
Week 4: becoming magnetic to the miracle of love
Learn how to let go of desperately trying to make love happen and discover the joys of making it welcomed – to magically magnetize love into your life.
Embrace and delight in your deeper desires for love – and begin relating to them as an inspired blueprint for the partnership that’s possible for you to have.
Start showing up as the powerful and self-respecting woman or man that you are – rather than as a wounded child in your most intimate relationships.
Craft a wildly inspiring vision of happy, healthy love that exhilarates you and catapults you towards the fulfillment of that future.
Week 5: Awakening to self-love as a source of loving another
Understand the key differences between self-love, self-care and self-esteem – and elevate all three ways of loving yourself in preparation for loving another.
Make a fierce pledge to yourself to go all the way to realize your highest potentials in love – and inspire your partner to rise to support you to fulfill upon this commitment.
Learn to have an empowered relationship with your feelings and needs to deepen love and intimacy with “The One” you call into your life.
Reclaim your sensual self and increase the ways you love, care for and respect your body (just as it is!) as the sweet and sacred home you offer your beloved.
Week Six: activating your future of love fulfilled
Align your life with the future you’re committed to creating – and start making different choices and taking bold actions to turn your dreams into your reality.
Bust the covert and disempowering beliefs you’ve had about others – and start showing up in ways that command respect and compel greater levels of care and consideration.
Discover the one potent practice that will prevent you from ever feeling bad about yourself while on a date again.
Identify and begin to cultivate those specific skills and capacities you’ll need to graduate from your old disappointing patterns – and ensure you’ll maximize the potentials you hold for true happiness in love.
Week Seven: Receiving love into your life
Discover how to show up as radiant and irresistible – to inspire your beloved to recognize you instantly as “The One” for them.
Deepen into your intuitive knowing – to confidently navigate your way home to love.
Learn to use any obstacles, disappointments and delays as opportunities to deepen into your own power and magnetism – and become unstoppable on your pathway to happy, healthy love.
Begin weaving a field of relatedness wherever you go – and start causing the flourishing of life and love everywhere.
Are you ready to take the first step for happy healthy love?
Coaching Package include:
(1) Introductory One-on-One Coaching Session
(7) One-on-One Coaching Sessions
(1) Complimentary Booster Session
Your investment: $1,800 in full (save $100)
(or 2 monthly payments of $999)
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Calling in “The One” Coaching is for you if…
you’re a high-performing, single woman who is done with holding yourself back.
you’re ready to remove the inner barriers that are hindering you from getting the love you deserve.
you had a string of relationships that didn’t work out and you still attract the same kind of men— emotionally unavailable and commitment-phobic.
you have done years of personal development work and constantly improving yourself, but love is still elusive.
you have a beautiful vision of your future with your beloved and you want that extra push to make it a possibility.
you’ve gotten so far on your own, but you need someone who understands where you’re coming from to guide and support you in this journey to become magnetic to your soul partner.
you’ve been struggling to understand why you couldn’t find a partner who can “see” you for who you are.
you’re ready to invest in yourself in taking a stand for happy, healthy love in your life.
you need someone to hold your intentions with you and keep you accountable of your actions, so they are aligned with the future you intend to create.
you’re ready to spend 7 weeks together to fully transform your life and become unstoppable.
Frequently Asked Questions
+ What will I learn in 7 weeks?
This program is transformative in nature. You will be introduced to principles and distinctions that can cause powerful breakthroughs not only in love, but in your life in general.
You will learn through experience and you will be challenged to show up in radically new ways. You will also gain clarity on how you are the source of your disappointing relationship patterns and ensure that they will not happen again.
+ What shall I expect in every session?
Each session is approximately 60 minutes long done over the phone or Skype audio.
For International clients, I mostly do it through Skype audio.
The Introductory call includes a detailed intake session and could last up to 90 minutes.
For the actual 7-week program, there might be instances when sessions could go over 60 minutes.
I ask that you set aside a buffer time of 15 minutes especially for Week Three.
+ What kind of commitment is required of me?
The moment you decide to sign-up in this program, you already said YES! to a myriad of possibilities to enter your life.
The actual program, however, asks you to set aside 60-minutes each week for 7 weeks for our sessions. Please include a buffer time of 15-minutes especially for Week Three.
Most of my clients set a specific time and day to do the sessions. If anything comes up before our scheduled call, I need to be informed through email an hour before.
Each week, you are also assigned to read a chapter from the book, Calling in “The One”. Doing the exercises can take 15-30 minutes of your time everyday.
You can, of course, choose to do the weekly exercises in a day, for as long as it works for you.
I expect you to come prepared for each session to maximize your learnings and for breakthroughs to happen in your life.
+ Will I really find love after 7 weeks?
Although a lot of people do find love in a span of 7-9 weeks, it is not necessarily the goal of the course. What really matters is for you to cause powerful breakthroughs in your life and be able to let go of your disappointing patterns in love.
As you call in yourself first, you become empowered and more confident in your ability to call in "the one".
+ Why should I work with a coach instead of just reading the book?
While reading the book on your own can already lead you to a lot of breakthroughs in your love life, working with a coach can help give you more clarity and direction.
As your coach, I'll hold your intention with you and be your biggest cheerleader. I'll support and encourage you in your journey and share with you the principles and teachings of the program that will greatly benefit you.
I couldn't do the heavy-lifting for you, but if you commit to do the work, you will see major shifts happening in your life.
+ Can I do the program even if I am already in a relationship?
Yes, of course! If anything, the program will help you navigate through your current relationship. You will be able to apply first-hand what you learn and begin to show up in ways that can create a more stable and happier relationship.
+ What if I’m not sure if I want a relationship?
Some people who did the program chose not to be in a relationship yet. They want to work on themselves first and free themselves of their old painful patterns and remove their inner blocks in love.
When they choose to eventually be in a relationship, they are more empowered and confident to create a happy, healthy one.
+ Do you also work with men?
Yes! Although most of the clients I work with are women, the program is made for all genders and the principles/ teachings we'll cover are applicable to everyone.
+ How do I know if you’re the right coach for me?
Finding the right coach is essential especially with the amount of time and money you will be investing. It is important, therefore, that the coach you choose is right for you.
To get an idea of some of the distinctions we will be covering in the program, I invite you to download my FREE audio course.
I also encourage you to read my blog and sign-up to my Weekly Love Letters to see if my message resonates with you.
You can also set-up a FREE 30-Minute Discovery Call with me here, so we can get to know each other. I’m ready to answer all of your questions to help you make the best decision.
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